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Whether you’re currently in a coercive relationship or group, recently out, or worried about someone you love, this page is a starting point — not the only step, and not one you have to take alone.

Right now

Crisis & hotline support

These lines are staffed 24/7 by trained advocates and are free and confidential. Outside the U.S.? Find A Helpline covers 175+ countries — see below.

24/7 Hotline · U.S.

National Domestic Violence Hotline

1-800-799-7233

Support, safety planning, and referrals for anyone experiencing coercive control, in a relationship or a group. Text START to 88788, or chat online.

Visit thehotline.org →
24/7 Hotline · U.S.

National Human Trafficking Hotline

1-888-373-7888

For situations involving forced labor, exploitation, or trafficking — dynamics that can overlap with cult involvement. Text 233733 (BeFree).

Visit humantraffickinghotline.org →
Global directory

Find A Helpline

A vetted directory of crisis and support helplines in 175+ countries. If you’re outside the U.S., this is the fastest way to find a verified local line.

Visit findahelpline.com →
Worried about someone you love

If it’s not you, but someone you care about

Watching a family member or friend go through this is its own kind of hard. A few things the research this site draws on consistently points to:

1

Lead with curiosity, not confrontation

Direct attacks on the group or relationship tend to be heard as attacks on the person, and often push them closer to it rather than away. Ask questions; avoid ultimatums.

2

Stay reachable, even if contact feels one-sided

Low-conflict, non-judgmental contact — even brief and infrequent — keeps a door open that may matter more later than it seems to right now.

3

Take care of your own support too

Supporting a loved one through this is exhausting, and you don’t have to carry it alone. Many organizations that work on cult recovery support the families and friends around a member, not only the person involved — reaching out for your own support is a reasonable step, not a selfish one.

4

Read the pattern, not just the moment

This site’s weekly content and myths & facts page walk through how these dynamics actually build over time — useful context for understanding what you’re seeing.

Ongoing support

Cult-specific recovery resources

Organizations focused specifically on cult involvement, coercive control, and recovery — not only crisis response — spanning the U.S., UK, Australia, and Canada.

Parent organization

The Freedom Train Project

ICAM’s parent organization, providing year-round education and victim services for survivors of cults and coercive control.

Visit The Freedom Train Project →
Referrals & education

International Cultic Studies Association (ICSA)

A nonprofit network of survivors, families, and researchers offering referrals, educational resources, and an annual conference on cultic groups and recovery.

Visit ICSA →
Research & education

The Lalich Center on Cults and Coercion

Founded by Dr. Janja Lalich — author of Bounded Choice and a researcher cited throughout this campaign — offering learning resources, workshops, and discussion groups for survivors, families, and professionals.

Visit the Lalich Center →
Coaching · International

Freedom of Mind Resource Center

Founded by former cult member and licensed counselor Steven Hassan, offering coaching and consulting specifically for undue influence and cult involvement, worldwide.

Visit freedomofmind.com →
UK-based

The Family Survival Trust

A UK charity focused on coercive control, cultic behavior, and psychological manipulation, running monthly support groups for survivors and affected family members.

Visit The Family Survival Trust →
Australia

Olive Leaf Network

A survivor-led organization supporting people leaving high-demand religious groups and spiritually abusive communities, with peer support for leavers and their families.

Visit Olive Leaf Network →
Canada · Montreal

Info-Secte / Info-Cult

Founded in 1980, Canada’s only dedicated resource center on cults — offering information, referrals, and support groups for former members and worried families.

Visit Info-Secte →
Learn the pattern

This site’s weekly content

Psychological manipulation, isolation, financial exploitation, and family separation — the four-week arc behind this campaign.

Start with the campaign →

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Believed, not judged

Everything on this site is written on the premise that survivors are telling the truth about what happened to them.

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